DD – 19 Years

Dear Diary, It’s odd how things can sneak up on you at times. Things you haven’t thought about in years that suddenly break you all over again. Yesterday was an anniversary of sorts. 19 years ago yesterday the Rock Man proposed to me for a second time. The time I said yes. It is also […]

Trust Me

Trust. I’ve written about it before. I could write about it once a month and still have something new to say each month. At first glance it appears simple but if you stop and spend time considering the depth of it, the impact it has on every aspect of our lives, it can seem quite complicated. […]

How do you break up when you aren’t dating?

Breakup Day- February 21: Waiting for the right moment to end the relationship? You certainly can’t find any better day, so go ahead and get rid of that toxic person from your life, by breaking up. How do you do it? How do you break up with someone when you aren’t actually dating? Maybe you said […]

DD – Paving Roads

Dear Diary, I’ve been thinking about The Paver lately and wondering what that means. I know it has nothing to do with him personally, but maybe processing my thoughts on his concept of paving roads. Right, he paves roads. Roads he says he never intends to use.  I caught him chatting with other girls on […]

Less Than Ten Thousand

Do you like the way I do the things? I learned them from previous partners, but I learned the way you like them from you.

DD – He’s Married

Dear Diary, I hate that he got married. It isn’t like I thought we would ever get married, but I did think we were heading towards something more serious. More than friends, more than friends with benefits. I thought, I felt, that we would get serious with each other. And you know, I can usually […]

That Damn Suitcase!

We all have baggage. We all have baggage that we carry wth us through life, from one relationship to the next. As we navigate our way, looking for love, we hope to find someone who doesn’t have a lot of baggage and hope that our own baggage isn’t too much for them to bear. My baggage used […]

Keep On Believing

There’s a saying, the only constant is change. Things are always changing and evolving. Not always for the better, or as we would like, but how or when they change isn’t always within our control. G and I have been doing our thing for more than 3 years now and have known each other for […]