Goodbye Stella, We’ve Had A Good Run

Stella Kiink has been a part of my life for the the last ten years. She isn’t me, yet she is at times the very essence of me. When I was still a fresh young doe getting my feet wet and findings my footing in the sex blogging and erotica arena, Stella Kiink helped give […]

I Can Give You Flowers

Check out this post if you would like to have a little background context to this one. He was quiet the next two days before trying to initiate another conversation. I didn’t respond. The third day he apologized again. I have not responded. That didn’t stop him from sending me a message on FetLife to tell […]

Foolish Behaviour?

Then he said something about how I should have been more cautious, how my life would have turned out very differently if I hadn’t allowed myself to get pregnant by “THAT” kind of guy, and that he doesn’t date or even talk to women with “fuck buddies”. Now, I had told him the whole story […]

A Typo and A Toy

I received a beautiful silver bracelet for Christmas with some lovely engraved beads. I received two bracelets actually, one from my son and one from a friend. The friend’s, of course, was intended for my more kinky side. This bead is supposed to say Stella Kiink on it. The Stella part looks great… …however the […]

Happy Blogiversary!

One year! Stella Kiink is one year old today! I know this may seem paltry to some of you who have been blogging for years, but for me it’s a big deal. I wasn’t sure I could make it a month let alone a year, and now I am already planning things for the coming […]