Crying is Okay

I hate crying and feeling vulnerable. Both make me anxious and insecure. Unfortunately both are also a part of life, sometimes daily life. Both are also things we just have to allow on occasion. Crying is often considered a sign of weakness and paint the crier as being emotional or emotionally unstable. Well, crying for reasons […]

That Damn Suitcase!

We all have baggage. We all have baggage that we carry wth us through life, from one relationship to the next. As we navigate our way, looking for love, we hope to find someone who doesn’t have a lot of baggage and hope that our own baggage isn’t too much for them to bear. My baggage used […]

Strong Independent Woman

I was having a tough day last week. Yesterday. Today. Well… to be honest I’ve been having a lot of tough days for a while now. Working from home full time while having my son at home and trying to get him to do schoolwork each day for three and a half months. Just the […]

Healthy Food Matters

There was a time when I cooked dinner every day. Going out to a restaurant was reserved for special occasions and drive-thru’s were for a morning tea on the way to work or a quick bite while on the road travelling. Somewhere along the way that changed. I could easily say it was my kid […]

Food matters, and so do I

I’ve been thinking a lot about my relationship with food lately and the many issues I have with it. Wondering how something that is meant to nourish and give us life can also be so destructive. Oh, it doesn’t start out that way of course. It starts out being a comfort, like a hug from […]

Thank You

It’s been a long quiet few years here on my blog. I’m sure you’ve heard the crickets chirping or the tumbleweeds rolling about. I am very sorry for that and wanted to take a moment to say thank you. Thank you to all of you who continued to keep me on your list even though there […]

Merely A Passenger

There are days I am happy and joyful, full of love, kindness and a zest for life. I call friends, make plans, laugh at things because I genuinely feel happy. I wish there were more of those days. More often than not I am fighting just to get out of bed in the mornings. On days when […]

My Nightmare Affects My kinky Life

We all have nightmares don’t we? Worries about those horrible things that might happen, that could happen, and even things that are near impossibilities. Dreams of falling off a cliff or drowning in the ocean, even though we live nowhere near either of these places. These nightmares may be based on a real life fear, or they may begin […]