Love Your Own Way

We grow up, many of us at least, being told that we will meet our one true love and marry them. That’s where things are supposed to lead. You meet, you date, you may move in with each other, then you settle down and get married, possibly having a kid or two. That’s what I […]

Sex is a big question mark

What part of your sexuality seems the most mysterious to you, or what part are you still learning about? I’ve always been pretty open and experimental when it comes to my sex life. Probably more so as I’ve gotten older and more comfortable in my own skin, and definitely more since I started blogging. I […]

Do you know everyone on your list?

Somebody posed this question on Twitter a while back and it got me thinking about my list. I had a list. You know, “list.” I used to keep track in a notebook then on spreadsheet until the computer I had it on died. I never bothered trying to redo it or keep one up after […]

On the first day in August

On the first day in August I want to wake up by your side After sleeping with you On the last night in July The Fist Day August by Carole king G and I just spent some wonderful time together this weekend. We don’t get to do it often, and even less so with it […]

Showing the Scars

I show my boobs a lot on this blog, and outside of this blog actually. I think they’re pretty fantastic. What I don’t think is fantastic is the big scar that runs between them. Sure it’s a scar that saved my life, one I’ve had for more than 40 years, but I still often feel […]

My Broken Heart

Every single feeling tells me this is leading to a heart in broken little pieces and you know I need this like a hole… and I nearly forgot my broken heart Chris Cornell Many moons ago I had open heart surgery to repair a hole in my heart. I was 5 years old and remember […]

My Beautiful Body

It’s no secret that I’m not that fond of my body, at least I don’t think it is. I think all bodies are beautiful but often have a hard time seeing the beauty of my own. I see my scars, my failures, my insecurities, but not my beauty. Scars from surgeries and accidents. My failure […]

Spring Cleaning

I spent some time tidying my bedroom on the weekend. Many things have piled up over the past couple months and I desperately need to declutter. I don’t know about you, but when my space is cluttered and messy my brain follows suit. Clearing things out of my room will help clear the chaos in […]