TMIT – Navigating Sex

Navigating Sex


1. Answer Yes or No:
I Regret My First Kiss    NO. He was a nice guy and those were fun days
I Miss My First Love    NO. I see him most weeks as his sister cares for my son. I have not been “in love” with him for the better part of 20 years.
I Married My First Love    NO. I’ve actually never been married.
I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me    YES. I loved him, still do, but I am not in love with him. I believe it’s impossible to be in love with someone who isn’t also in love with you.

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?
I would say I am monogamous more so than polyamorous. I don’t cheat on my partners and I don’t often have more than one. There have been times when I have had relationships with several men at one time, and am certain I will again in the future, but that hasn’t been my normal way. When having multiple relationships there is still always a main one and that relationship will always override the others. Each partner is also always aware of the other, or others, before moving forward. I don’t consider swinging or threesomes, or even surrogates as more than an add-on to a relationship.

3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!
Yeah, that would never happen. I am nearly always in the mood and even if I wasn’t I would get there soon enough.

4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?
I don’t have a partner currently, but my last few partners did not mind at all. If anything, they would push me to do it. Voyeurs. Got to love the voyeurs. 🙂

5. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame
b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys
c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner
I am very playful, enjoy toys, and love trying new things. I guess that makes me a bit of all three. Typically it would be playful and adventurous.

Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.
How about I just show you…



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2 thoughts on “TMIT – Navigating Sex

  1. SH also says he thinks he’d be in trouble if he’d been there without a life raft – but what a way to go!

  2. G

    Best answer I’ve “read” to the bonus question yet! Awesome!

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