I could have been over him by now

I don’t know what I was thinking when I thought this month would make ending things easier. Spending more time together is making it harder. Enjoying his company, sleeping in his arms… it just made it hurt more. And it shouldn’t hurt, not now, not two years after he went off and married someone else. […]

Dressed in a towel

I was feeling down about my body today so went looking through pics to make me feel better. This one is from a year ago, when I was working from home in a towel. Can’t do that in the office. 🙂

Love Your Own Way

We grow up, many of us at least, being told that we will meet our one true love and marry them. That’s where things are supposed to lead. You meet, you date, you may move in with each other, then you settle down and get married, possibly having a kid or two. That’s what I […]

Showing the Scars

I show my boobs a lot on this blog, and outside of this blog actually. I think they’re pretty fantastic. What I don’t think is fantastic is the big scar that runs between them. Sure it’s a scar that saved my life, one I’ve had for more than 40 years, but I still often feel […]

My Beautiful Body

It’s no secret that I’m not that fond of my body, at least I don’t think it is. I think all bodies are beautiful but often have a hard time seeing the beauty of my own. I see my scars, my failures, my insecurities, but not my beauty. Scars from surgeries and accidents. My failure […]

3 Hearts

A woman has three hearts… One she shares with the world One she shares with family And one she shares only with herself 💗 ♥️ ❤️