There are obstacles. There always are of one type or another. Distance. Family. Circumstance. There is always some reason to say no, to decide that the person you long for is not the person who will be yours. Sometimes it is our own fears and insecurities. Again, things we all have. They may be different […]

What is on your list?

What is it we look for in a partner? We talk about the looks… handsome, nice teeth, big hands, taller than me. We talk about desired qualities and attributes… smart, funny, hardworking, thoughtful. We may have specific desires… a pilot, drives a truck, likes dogs, is Jewish. These are all just items on a list […]

I Can Be a Downright Fool

I give people the benefit of the doubt more often than I should. I don’t know why but I’d rather be too trusting, believe the best of people, than to assume the worst and be shown better later. Naive? Maybe. Better for my spirit? I don’t know. Seems I believe in people I shouldn’t, people […]

Poly Relationships

I believe we are capable of loving more than one person at a time and having committed relationships with each of them. As with any relationship though, the key to making it work is open and honest communication with everyone. You can have a primary partner, many would have a legal spouse with another committed […]

A Different Kind of Sunday

  I’ve been thinking about a part if my life I lived many moons ago. The memories sometimes feeling like they happened to another person in another time, sometimes feeling like I lived them just yesterday. The only thing for certain is that I am reminded of them nearly every day. This picture was taken […]

Like A Statue

“I’ll instill stillness in you, like a statue. In this way maybe you’ll come to love me – slowly.” ~ Jarod Kintz, Love quotes for the ages      


Have you ever had an experience you were too naïve to understand or appreciate? So erotic, but you were too insecure to just let it be and embrace it? I relive the following experience in my head over and over again. It’s been 25 years, yet when I close my eyes I am transported back […]


Saying good-bye doesn’t mean good-bye forever. Sometimes it’s just good-bye for now. Sometimes it’s a good-bye to one dynamic so another can take its place. Sometimes it is a good-bye forever though. Not because we want to say good-bye. Not because we don’t want that person in our lives. But because we want the other […]