Stella’s 101 Things in 1001 Days

I’ve been contemplating doing this since first hearing about it last year. I’m all for plans and goals and getting things done. Well, I normally am but have laxed a lot in the last while. Time to get back on track and 101 Things In 1001 Days just might be the way to do that. In addition to being SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely) goals, posting on my blog for everyone to see should help in further motivating me.

I hope to have my page posted on Molly’s blog under the meme page The 101 in 1001 Group Listings. Links to the posts of Molly and other sexy bloggers can be found there. Check them all out and join in yourself. 101 Things in 1001 Days

Starting date: April 4, 2013 End Date: December 31, 2015 Goals completed so far: 41 Goals failed: 59 Goals not available: 1

*progress last updated December 27, 2015

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BLOGGING PROJECTS

1. Update my about me page for the StellaKiink blog. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED March 2015
2. Write a piece for Molly’s Pussy Pride project. (5/1) ~COMPLETED April 8/13 3. Write a piece for Mia’s Fellatio projects. (6/1) ~COMPLETED May 23/13
4. Participate in NaBloPoMo 2014. (1/1) ~COMPLETED October 31/14
5. Participate in NaBloPoMo 2015 for two months. (0/2) ~FAILED
6. The Sex Alphabet Project (26/26) ~COMPLETED April 2015
7. Do the 30 Days of Kink. (0/30) ~FAILED
8. 50 weeks of TMI Tuesday. (24/50) ~FAILED
9. 100 weeks of Wicked Wednesday. (94/100) ~ close, but FAILED
10. Complete 7 more pieces for the Becoming series, for a total of 10. (1/7) ~ I only added one more piece to the Becoming series but I did write 9 for a new series, Life with Victor, so I will count this as a win ~ COMPLETED
11. Celebrate the first anniversary of the blog. (1/1) ~COMPLETED August 28/13 12. Post 5 audio posts to blog. (1/5) ~ FAILED, though getting through one felt as though I’d done a dozen!
13. Have a guest blog post each month (22/30) ~ FAILED
14. Increase blog viewership average to 100 per day. Started at 30. (1/1) ~COMPLETED October 2013, currently averaging 146 per day
15. Reach 50,000 total blog views. Started at 7,205. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED, I’ve had 107,000 views to date

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WRITING

16. Submit at least two pieces for publishing. (2/2) ~ COMPLETED, there are two that will be published in the new year
17. Get paid to write at least two pieces. I recently learned that getting paid to write a piece is not the same as getting it published. (1/2) ~ FAILED
18. Start writing a novel. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED, I’ve started the book but it is not yet finished
19. Take two writing classes, either on-line or at a local college. (0/2) ~ FAILED, though I am signed up for two in the new year
20. Write something every other day. Not specifically for the blog, just in general. Without practice, without effort, I will never improve, I will never write that great novel. :) (90/500) ~ I seem to be failing miserably at this task. I should be around 135 by now. ~ FAILED, I never did get momentum on this one
21. Participate in NaPoWriMo 2015. (0/1) ~ FAILED

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PHOTOGRAPHY PROJECTS

22. Join in Dee’s Scavanger Hunt with 10 pictures/places. (0/10) ~ FAILED
23. Post for Sinful Sunday at least once a month. (98/33) ~ COMPLETED!!
24. Do an erotic advent calendar (0/1) ~set for December 2014 ~ FAILED
25. Start and complete a 365 photography project – ME. (0/365) ~ FAILED
26. Start and complete a 365 photography project – THE BOY. (0/365) ~ began May 2, 2015 ~ FAILED
27. Take erotic photos of each sexual partner during the 1001 days. (7/9) ~ FAILED

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SOCIALIZE & SELF PROMOTION

28. Attend Eroticon 2014 & 2015. (0/2) ~You can help sponsor me for this event HERE or HERE. ~ FAILED
29. Attend a Tweep-up. (0/1) ~ FAILED
30. Submit to eLust every month in 2014. (10/12) ~ FAILED
31. Attend 15 munches. (18/15) ~ Considering I am now the host of our local munch, I am going to go out on a limb and say that successfully completing this task is a certainty. :) ~ COMPLETED, though I stopped hosting at the end of last year
32. Reach 1001 twitter followers. Started at 328. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
33. Create a badge for blog. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
34. Design and print business cards. (0/1) ~ FAILED
35. Attend two Club Oasis events. (0/2) ~ FAILED
36. Attend two events at Subspace Dungeon Studio. (2/2) ~ COMPLETED
37. Attend Torture Garden Toronto 2014. (0/1) ~ THERE WASN’T ONE
38. Attend Toronto’s Everything To Do With Sex show. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
39. Attend a sex show/event in another city. (3/1) ~ COMPLETED

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OTHER SEXY STUFF

40. Have an orgasm every day for National Orgasm Month, October. (2/31) ~ FAILED
41. Experience my first full on DP. (0/1) ~ FAILED
42. Have a minimum of two threesomes (or moresomes) each year, with at least one FFM as I was too naive in the last one. (4/6) ~ FAILED
43. Sign a contract with a new student and maintain for at least one year. (0/1) ~ FAILED
44. Make a decent squirting video. (0/1) ~ FAILED
45. Break in my strap-on with some pegging. (2/1) ~COMPLETED August 21/13
46. Write a list of all my sexual partners. (0/1) ~ FAILED, I lost the one that was on my old computer and never re-wrote it
47. Purchase, or be gifted, two sets of nipple jewelry. (4/2) ~ COMPLETED, I started making some myself

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SELF IMPROVEMENT

48. Make a speech in front of people. I was asked to do the Welcome to the family speech for my brother’s wedding next month. (1/1) ~COMPLETED May 11/13
49. Attend a silent retreat weekend. (0/1) ~ FAILED
50. Go to a nudist resort (0/1) ~ FAILED
51. Update my resume and post to an online job board such as Workopolis or Monster. (1/1) ~COMPLETED June 13/13
52. Find a real job, with three weeks’ vacation and flexible hours. (1/1) ~COMPLETED September 9/13
53. Have a professional boudoir photography session. (0/1) ~ FAILED
54. Join Toastmasters again. I need to get better (i.e. actually do it) at speaking in front of people. (0/1) ~ FAILED
55. Write a list of 50 things that make me happy. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
56. Write a list of 25 things I like about myself, my life. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
57. Finish ‘The Ethical Slut’ and return it. (0/1) ~ FAILED

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PERSONAL HEALTH

58. Lose at least 40 lbs. (12/40) ~ FAILED
59. Walk for an hour 3 times a week. (0/135) ~ FAILED
60. Exercise 3 x weekly beginning 2014, in addition to the walking. (0/100) ~ FAILED
61. Exercise specifically to flatten stomach and tone arms in 2013. (0/31) ~ FAILED
62. Get back to meditating. Start with a 21 day meditation series. (0/21) ~ COMPLETED
63. Attend a reiki share every other month (0/16) ~ FAILED
64. Participate in the walk for brain cancer research/awareness 2014 & 2015 (0/2) ~ FAILED
65. Keep up with kegel exercises. 5 days a week for 50 weeks (0/250) ~ FAILED
66. Bring blood pressure under control and eliminate medication. (0/1) ~ FAILED

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PAMPERING & GENERAL FUN STUFF

67. Have a 1 ½ hr massage on my birthday each year. I have already done this for my birthday this year. (2/2) ~ COMPLETED
68. Read the complete Sleeping Beauty series by Anne Rice, originally written under the pseudonym A.N. Roquelaure. (0/3) ~ FAILED
69. Read ‘The Story of O’ (0/1) ~ FAILED
70. Have a relaxing bath each month (1/33) ~ FAILED
71. Get a professional bra fitting and bra. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
72. Watch The Secretary and Preaching To The Perverted. (0/2) ~ FAILED
73. Get a professional pedicure 6 times a year, each year. (11/18) ~ FAILED
74. Watch the sun rise and set on the same day. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
75. Go to Las Vegas. (0/1) ~ FAILED
76. Go on an all-inclusive one week vacation. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED March 2014
77. Take a hot air balloon ride. (0/1) ~ FAILED
78. Update my list of qualities I am looking for in a partner. (1/1) ~COMPLETED December 30/13, after reviewing it no update was required
79. Self-manicure with polish once a month. (38/33) ~ COMPLETED
80. Cover up angel tattoo with Bodhi tree tattoo. Get foot tattoo touched up at the same time. (0/2) ~ FAILED
81. Go to Lilydale Assembly each year. (1/3) ~ FAILED
82. Attend a live theatre show. (0/1) ~ FAILED
83. Attend a concert each year. (0/3) ~ FAILED
84. Go out to the cinema to see 10 movies. (3/10) ~ FAILED

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ORGANIZING & CRAFTY STUFF

85. Clean out the jungle that is my clothes. Give to good will. (1/1) ~COMPLETED July 19/13
86. Clean out the boy’s room. Put aside clothes for quilt, give remainder of clothes and toys to good will. Since he’s a toddler I will have to do this more than once. (2/2) ~ COMPLETED November 2015
87. Make a quilt. (0/1) ~ FAILED, I’ve come to terms with the fact this will never happen
88. Clean out storage closets. Sell or give reasonable items to good will. (1/1) ~ COMPLETED
89. Knit a couch throw/blanket. (0/1) ~ FAILED
90. Create a family cook book and have printed copies made for holiday presents. (0/1) ~ FAILED
91. Participate in the Fall craft sale with Candi again this year. (1/1) ~COMPLETED November 16/13
92. Make items to keep on hand for house warmings , hostess gifts, and such. (1/1) ~COMPLETED December 2013

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FAMILY LIFE

93. Take the boy out on a whale watch boat ride (1/1) ~ COMPLETED August 2015, though we didn’t see any wales
94. Sign the boy up for a dance or gymnastics class, a physical activity of some sort. (4/1) ~COMPLETED two classes in 2014 and two in 2015
95. Take the boy to the park twice a week when the weather is suitable. (86/100?) ~ FAILED
96. Take the boy on a train ride. (1/1) ~COMPLETED July 28/13
97. Go swimming with the boy once a month (20/33) ~ FAILED
98. Put my cookbooks to good use. Cook a new recipe at least once a month. (18/33) ~ FAILED
99. Take the boy to his first day of school (1/1) ~ COMPLETED September 2014
100. Go on vacation with the boy to Lego Land or Sesame Street. (0/1) ~ FAILED

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FINALE

101. Put on, or attend, a big New Year’s celebration 2015. Coincidently, the last day of my 1001 days. (0/1) ~ FAILED

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