My Nightmare Affects My kinky Life

We all have nightmares don’t we? Worries about those horrible things that might happen, that could happen, and even things that are near impossibilities. Dreams of falling off a cliff or drowning in the ocean, even though we live nowhere near either of these places. These nightmares may be based on a real...

Better Than The Last Twelve

I tried to keep track of my orgasms last year. I didn’t start keeping track because I thought I was lacking or because I wanted to reach any specific number. It actually started as a result of a previous partner often commenting about how difficult it was for me to have an...

Morning Shower

Come, he had said. Come before you remove the kegel balls. Come, and tell me. Yes Sir. I will come in the shower this morning. Stepping into the shower was a warm welcome after being greeted by the cold November morning. Not initially though, as it first ran cold and shocked awake...

Guns and Wolves

I so wanted to follow the “Promote” prompt this week but after completely revamping my Erotic Episodes project I lost everything. Not sure how it happened but so far I’ve not been able to get it back. When I log on I don’t even see the regular WP dashboard. I have...

When The Music Goes Silent

Music has always played an important role for me and, as is my life, it can be quite eclectic. Don’t even try to pin me down. An afternoon drive from work might run the gambit of me belting out Heavy, getting emotional with a soulful Let It Be Me, or even unwinding to Pachelbel’s...

In Front of an Audience

“This weekend we are at Eroticon Live in Bristol and this afternoon there will be some kink demos and discussions. That made me wonder – is there anything you would like to do in front of an audience, or not? Why? Why not? What would you like to do?...

The Condom: I have issues

My first experience with a condom was when I was raped. The whole experience, of course, was awful but the condom made it worse. We move on from rape. We accept that it was an act of power rather than a purely sexual act. We learn the difference from...

More on Porn

I’ve written about porn before. What does porn lead to? and Pornography or Erotic? What does it matter? are two posts I’m quite proud of. Please check them out. I’m not much of a porn aficionado. I really don’t watch it. I can’t name any current porn stars aside...