D is for…

Distance Distance makes the heart grow fonder. That’s what they say. How do “they” know that? Does it not just make you forget instead? After all, there are other “they” who say out of sight means out of mind. If time is distance then yes, it can make you...

Foolish Behaviour?

Then he said something about how I should have been more cautious, how my life would have turned out very differently if I hadn’t allowed myself to get pregnant by “THAT” kind of guy, and that he doesn’t date or even talk to women with “fuck buddies”. Now, I...

Honesty

Honesty. I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently. It’s the one thing, above all else, that I have always asked of and expected of my partners. Sadly it seems to be the one thing none have been capable of thus far. Why is this? Why is honesty so...

I Can Be a Downright Fool

I give people the benefit of the doubt more often than I should. I don’t know why but I’d rather be too trusting, believe the best of people, than to assume the worst and be shown better later. Naive? Maybe. Better for my spirit? I don’t know. Seems I...

Poly Relationships

I believe we are capable of loving more than one person at a time and having committed relationships with each of them. As with any relationship though, the key to making it work is open and honest communication with everyone. You can have a primary partner, many would have...

Jealous Much?

Victor and Tasha have to wait another week. I had started the next post in the series but things, as often happens in my life, got in the way. I was quite sick with bronchitis and am just beginning to feel halfway normal again. The coughing is dying down...

Missing Him

I’ve been thinking about MySir all day today. I picked up my phone to talk to him more than a few times. I told him I would give him what he needs though so I didn’t call him or text him. It’s hard. Not doing the one thing I...

What Happens?

What happens when we fall in love with someone who can’t love us back? What happens if they do? What happens when the road blocks are too big to cross? Do we keep trying to cross them? Do we give up? Do we ever really give up, or do...