Stella Kiink

Trust Me

Published on February 17, 2021February 17, 2021 by StellaK

Trust. I’ve written about it before. I could write about it once a month and still have something new to say each month. At first glance it appears simple but if you stop and spend time considering the depth of it, the impact it has on every aspect of our...

How do you break up when you aren’t dating?

Published on February 14, 2021February 14, 2021 by StellaK

Breakup Day- February 21: Waiting for the right moment to end the relationship? You certainly can’t find any better day, so go ahead and get rid of that toxic person from your life, by breaking up. How do you do it? How do you break up with someone when you...

DD – Paving Roads

Published on January 30, 2021January 30, 2021 by StellaK

Dear Diary, I’ve been thinking about The Paver lately and wondering what that means. I know it has nothing to do with him personally, but maybe processing my thoughts on his concept of paving roads. Right, he paves roads. Roads he says he never intends to use. I caught...

Labels

Published on January 10, 2021January 11, 2021 by StellaK

Through the years I have been given many labels. Some of which have been me, yet not me at the same time , some that have evolved over the years, and some that were way off base. The label you give me depends on the side of me you...

Less Than Ten Thousand

Published on January 4, 2021January 4, 2021 by StellaK

Do you like the way I do the things? I learned them from previous partners, but I learned the way you like them from you.

Keep On Believing

Published on March 3, 2020March 3, 2020 by StellaK

There’s a saying, the only constant is change. Things are always changing and evolving. Not always for the better, or as we would like, but how or when they change isn’t always within our control. G and I have been doing our thing for more than 3 years now...

There are always signs

Published on January 29, 2020January 29, 2020 by StellaK

“I miss him.” “I wish we could have worked things out.” “I don’t know what went wrong.” “We were so good together.” “I want a relationship like that again.” “I want to be with him again.” “I miss him.” Why do we constantly look back at relationships and want...

DD – No Clue

Published on January 29, 2017January 29, 2017 by StellaK

Dear Diary, I fall for men who have no time for me, ones who fit me in here and there as they wish. I even fell for one who lived in another country and wasn’t able to get him to agree to see me once in two fucking years. Not...