Labels

Through the years I have been given many labels. Some of which have been me, yet not me at the same time , some that have evolved over the years, and some that were way off base. The label you give me depends on the side of me you...

Crying is Okay

I hate crying and feeling vulnerable. Both make me anxious and insecure. Unfortunately both are also a part of life, sometimes daily life. Both are also things we just have to allow on occasion. Crying is often considered a sign of weakness and paint the crier as being emotional or...

DD – He’s Married

Dear Diary, I hate that he got married. It isn’t like I thought we would ever get married, but I did think we were heading towards something more serious. More than friends, more than friends with benefits. I thought, I felt, that we would get serious with each other....

Glad it’s Over

Not often do I wish time to go faster but this past year I wished it a lot. 2020 seemed far too long, and far too difficult at times. That one extra leap year day felt more like an extra hundred days. The year started off pretty well. I...

That Damn Suitcase!

We all have baggage. We all have baggage that we carry wth us through life, from one relationship to the next. As we navigate our way, looking for love, we hope to find someone who doesn’t have a lot of baggage and hope that our own baggage isn’t too much...

I’ll take the orgasm

An orgasm can do wonders for ones well being. It certainly does mine. I feel much more relaxed, less stressed, and am able to fall quickly into a good night’s sleep after having an orgasm or two, more if I’m a very lucky girl. The question is, why do we...